Dating with your boss

05-Feb-2018 15:22

Plus, if there's a company policy against it or someone can prove that you've gotten perks as the result of being the boss's girl, you're jeopardizing both of your careers. Get a new job ASAP, advises career expert Alexandra Levit, author of Blind Spots: The 10 Business Myths You Can't Afford to Believe on Your New Path to Success.

For instance the old 'we want what we can't have' routine.“If the source is reliable, or if you've observed suspicious behavior yourself, go directly to the boss or the senior person in the situation and determine the nature of the relationship, remind them of the policy, and ask for their cooperation and confidentiality.If they continue against policy, use your company's disciplinary policy to correct the situation.” As a protection against accusations of harassment or coercion, some employers have employees sign a “love contract.” These contracts indicate “that the employees are voluntarily engaging in a romantic relationship, that the relationship will not affect the workplace, and that the participants are aware of the employer's sexual harassment policies,” Zoller says.Once that happens, any work success you have, like a promotion or raise, will be seen as a result of your relationship, not your hard work.Coworkers might also get jealous and try to sabotage you on the job (lame, but it happens).

For instance the old 'we want what we can't have' routine.“If the source is reliable, or if you've observed suspicious behavior yourself, go directly to the boss or the senior person in the situation and determine the nature of the relationship, remind them of the policy, and ask for their cooperation and confidentiality.If they continue against policy, use your company's disciplinary policy to correct the situation.” As a protection against accusations of harassment or coercion, some employers have employees sign a “love contract.” These contracts indicate “that the employees are voluntarily engaging in a romantic relationship, that the relationship will not affect the workplace, and that the participants are aware of the employer's sexual harassment policies,” Zoller says.Once that happens, any work success you have, like a promotion or raise, will be seen as a result of your relationship, not your hard work.Coworkers might also get jealous and try to sabotage you on the job (lame, but it happens).“When one has a reasonable suspicion that a boss/subordinate are dating, that individual should immediately report their suspicion to human resources, which can then ensure that there are safeguards in place,” says Matthew Brophy, assistant professor of philosophy at High Point University.